I will make sure that your mindset is ready for the changes that will happen in your relationship. As you become more open-minded and receptive to new ideas, it will be tremendously easier to approach your problem from multiple perspectives, hence finding multiple solutions.

With all the knowledge and understanding in place, what you need to focus on next is how to express your thoughts so that you can apply what you’ve learned to your relationship. Knowing how to communicate so that your partner can listen -- and attentively listen to your partner -- is not an easy thing to do.

At this point you have put in the effort into making changes in your relationship, and you will be experiencing more joy in your marriage. However, life often throws us 'curve balls'. Each session in the latter part of your coaching will focus on difficulties that still come up, and help you discover how you want to apply what you have learned. It's now time for you to come up with the solutions. 

My life was upside down. I didn't understand how my marriage could be such a mess. I'm a Christian woman and I wanted to honor God, and I desperately wanted to save my marriage. So, I had to dig in. I began consuming huge amounts of Christian material on marriage and relationships. I devoured books and studied video courses and went to classes at church, listened to marriage radio programs, talked to friends and counseled with pastors.... I learned SO MUCH! I became the best wife I could be.